Small... but mighty

.... and out in the world

When I saw the open call for “Small but Mighty” at one of my favorite DC galleries, I stopped in my tracks. “Small but mighty” took me back to over ten years ago, when I was pregnant with my twin girls.

I was 35, so grateful to be pregnant thanks to IVF, but for many reasons, the pregnancy was a hell of a journey for us. There was a job loss, trips to the ER, a hurricane, you name it.

And as with any pregnancy, a number of family members and acquaintances could not stop sharing their unsolicited opinions: twins are too much for you; double trouble; you’re gaining too much weight; you’re too small to carry the babies to term, etc. That last comment was repeated over and over again, and really affected my confidence.

Finally, I spoke to my doctor. I will always remember his immediate reaction: “Yes, you’re small… but wiry; I am not at all worried about this.” I was so grateful; I wanted to hug the older gentleman who had been delivering babies for over 40 years, who saw me so clearly and practiced with care and compassion. (He was right; I gave birth to full term healthy babies.)

So here I am; reflecting on that time where I was very vulnerable. Recognizing that folks reflect their own insecurities; but perhaps somehow still digesting the unnecessary criticism, and how women are made to feel small.

One of my submissions was juried into the show. I am so proud of this friends! Now, my invitation is for you to (re)title my piece: Small but mighty, Small but brave, Small but poignant, Small but stunning… What do you think? What would be your choice?

Small but… - watercolor and acrylic on handmade paper - 6x8” - wood frame - floated mounted with custom mat - $195

The opening reception is tonight. I am so excited to see everyone’s work in situ. If you’re in the DC area, please join at Girls Who Paint, in Kensington, MD - 5:30-7:30pm.

The entire show is available online at Girls Who Paint

With love, mighty friends and readers.

Emilie Bird